Ever been stuck in the middle of a conflict between two friends, family members, or coworkers, and you found yourself at a loss for the right guidance to share with them? Worse yet, ever been the one personally responsible for, or entangled in, a conflict with another person? We all have. Pride is often the…
Read moreOnly Jesus is Perfect
“Only Jesus is perfect!” Those are the four words my daughter tells me every single time I say, “That was perfect.” She’s right, and as someone who has struggled with the appearance of perfection my entire life, it’s perhaps my favorite thing I have ever taught my daughter. We have to accept we are not…
Read moreAre You Lazy Busy?
Last Monday, I opened my YouTube App and was greeted by The Skit Guys “God’s Chisel” video. “You’re lazy, but you try to fool everybody by looking really really busy,” are the words that stood out to me from the video. I have pondered those words for a week. A week that was filled with…
Read moreWhat’s Your Excuse (for Not Going to Church)?
WHAT’S YOUR EXCUSE? “The gimmicks are the only reason I don’t go to church. Not because I don’t believe, but instead I don’t buy into the modernization of the church and what it has become. Surely God is dissatisfied and disappointed.” “I don’t go to church because churches are filled with hypocrites and people judging…
Read more“But God” or “God, But…”
Where you place the word “but” makes a huge difference. For example, when you put BUT before GOD, it tells a story of how God changes everything. THE “BUT GOD” STORY The words “But God” appear more than 40 times together in the Bible. Romans 5:7-8 (NIV), “But God demonstrates his own love for us…
Read moreWhat is Your Highest Priority in Parenting?
“What is your highest priority in parenting?” That is a question Dr. Richard Ross asked yesterday at Trinity Baptist Church as he taught on how a parent’s relationship with Christ and a parent’s relationship with their child impacts the child’s relationship with Christ in adulthood. A parent’s focus is usually on one of 3 things:…
Read moreGod’s Timing: When Strangers Cross Your Path
As we were headed to our car today at the church, I noticed a lady sitting by herself on the sidewalk. My daughter and I approached the lady to make sure she was okay. She shared how she’d gotten into an argument with her friend at the gas station. She saw the church across the…
Read moreOh Be Careful Little Eyes What You See | Life Lesson from High School Theater
Growing up, I loved being part of the theatre. More than two decades have passed, and I can still sing the songs from the musical “Annie Get Your Gun” that I participated in my freshman year of high school. Each year I look forward to taking my daughter to the fall musical production one of…
Read moreThe One Word that Profoundly Changes Everything
One word can profoundly change everything. When I rang in 2022, I was excited. Because I had made the decision to get baptized after the Christmas decor had gone up covering the baptistery, my baptism had been scheduled for six weeks by the time that Sunday morning came. I had eagerly been anticipating the moment….
Read moreYour Job Is Not Your Identity
This past weekend I taught a class about how different personalities impact work environments and relationships. After the class was over both days, I had individuals stay to ask me “coincidentally” the same two questions. 1. “What happens when my identity is wrapped up in my job?” 2. “How do I fix my relationship with…
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